Carrying a relationship is two heads job: You and …

Relationship is two people coming together with the joint decision to travel a road together. Primarily, a journey is suppose to be fun and fun filled

If having fun becomes or begins to feel like a chore, then you are not on the right road. That relationship could be with the right person but the path in which you are traveling on, is a wrong one. I’m sure we understand.

Today’s post, is about relationship in general; romantic relationship, friendship relationship, including family relationship.

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Even the journey of family relationship could be travelled on the wrong road. I’ve come to believe that some of us were brought into the start of a journey by a family but we’re not meant to journey with same family.

Relationship could be with two people. A bunch of people. Or three person.

Let me explain

Two people could be a guy and girl. Guy and guy. Girl and girl. In love. Romantic relationship. Boom journey starts. OR friends who choose to mean the world to themselves, if it’s according to their destiny.

Yes I Believe In Destiny 🙌

Bunch of people. Family. Bunch. Just bunch.

Three person. Note that person is singular. So travelling with three person is building connection and holding on to that connection. With Yourself.

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I honestly doubt anyone was created not to have his/herself for himself. If you get me. If you don’t, please let me know in the comment section.

Me. Myself. I. we are a complete package. So instead of allowing outside beings affect me, I cover up Myself

I am making a decision to travel on a journey where I decide the turns and stops. The breaks and head ons.

My point is

When you decide to get in a relationship with yourself or with someone extra or when you decide to build a connect with a family member or family as a whole, you have to understand that the vehicle is no longer filled with just your presence.

You have a spirit being that confronts you, just like I have a spirit being that confronts me.

Me. Myself. Both have spirit beings that confronts us. You know the saying that when you are alone, you are not really alone? That’s because you have your thoughts. Your concerns. Your regrets. Even the shame. Our bodies are made up of more than the image or reflection we see. We are filled with way more than we can touch on our skin.

So if we don’t make the decision to connect, we will be disorganized. Disoriented.

To create a Relationship, we must make The decision that we are willing to stand by. The Connection we become too lazy, to cut off.

Please, remember I said, if it is destined. Also, it’s an Agreement. One person can not carry a relationship.

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Thank you so much for reading. If you have any questions or suggestions or subtractions, the comment section is wide open. Till next time. Be Blessed.